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preference for a mother in the early years; although, little scientific literature actually supports this conjecture since these studies are typically done in situations where the mother is the primary caregiver and not the father. It is biased to say that infants have a "natural" preference for the mother when their mother is the one who is their primary caregiver; a more correct statement would be that infants have an attachment preference for the parent who is their primary caregiver. Studies have found that between 5 and 20% of children actually have a primary attachment with their father.

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of SIDS. Studies that investigate SIDS directly have shown that co-sleeping raises the SIDS risk instead of lowering it. Things that increase the risk of SIDS include: 1) when the infant is younger than four months, 2) the parents were especially tired, 3) the parents consumed alcohol, 4) parents were smokers, 5) slept on a sofa, or 6) the baby was in a duvet. Even in the absence of these risk factors, studies have still shown there to be an increased risk of SIDS when bed sharing. The U.S.

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recommends babywearing for the purpose of settling a baby to sleep, too. He approves on the use of a sling up to the age of three, since child wearing can also be used to calm a misbehaving toddler down. Other pediatricians find it disputable to wear children beyond the age of nine months permanently on the body, arguing that this is against the child's natural desire for autonomy.

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of "parental tribalism". According to Macvarish, it is characteristic for such choices that they are much more angled towards the parents' self-perception than towards the child's needs. Sociologist Charlotte Faircloth, too, considers attachment parenting a strategy that women pursue in order to gain and to express

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Multiple authors have stated that many parents choose attachment parenting as part of an individualization strategy and as a statement of personal identity and of social affiliation. This assumption is supported by the observation that most AP parents show further distinctive parenting and life style

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in Uganda, Ainsworth has observed that sometimes even children who spend plenty of time with their mothers and who were breastfed on cue, developed signs of insecure attachment; she concluded that it is not the quantity of mother-child interaction that determines the attachment type, but the quality.

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William Sears' assumptions about the benefit of breastfeeding for the attachment have been studied. In 2006, John R. Britton and a research team (Kaiser Permanente) found that highly sensitive mothers are more likely than less sensitive mothers to breastfeed and to breastfeed over a long time period.

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and to favor a kind of parenting that is child-centered, expert-guided, emotionally absorbing, labor, and financially intensive. Hays saw the motives for the overloading of motherhood in the idealistic endeavor to cure an overly egoistical and competitive society through a counterbalancing principle

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As Suzanne M. Cox (Northwestern University) has pointed out, neither attachment theory nor attachment parenting offer a general outline of the optimal development of the child, which could be used to empirically measure the efficacy of attachment parenting. The Searses promise parenting results such

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of crying: parents are advised not only to practice breastfeeding, baby wearing and co-sleeping as much as possible, but also to get into the habit of properly responding to the early warning signals so that crying doesn't happen in the first place. Likewise, parents must teach their child that some

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also warns against co-sleeping. Attachment Parenting International issued a response which stated that the data referenced in the Consumer Product Safety Commission statement were unreliable, and that co-sponsors of the campaign had created a conflict of interest. The American Academy of Pediatrics'

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Sears is convinced that mother and child, in spite of frequent nighttime breastfeeding, have the best sleep when they sleep close together. He is also convinced that due to the extra nighttime feedings, a child that sleeps close to the mother thrives better than a child "crying, alone, behind bars".

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In 1990, a research team from New York revealed in a randomized study that children of lower class mothers who to the age of 13 months spent a lot of time in a child carrier on their mother's body showed significantly more frequently a secure attachment as defined by Ainsworth than the control group

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William Sears strongly believes in the existence of child rearing practices that support "baby reading" and that augment maternal sensitivity. The methods of attachment parenting include seven practices/principles that according to Sears form a "synergetic" ensemble and that are based on the child's

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which became the first comprehensive manual for AP-parents and which was occasionally dubbed "the attachment parenting bible". The first attachment parenting organization, Attachment Parenting International, formed in 1994 in Alpharetta, Georgia, and was founded by Lysa Parker and Barbara Nicholson.

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magazine that showed a Californian mother breastfeeding her almost 4-year-old. In the accompanying article "The Man Who Remade Motherhood", journalist Kate Pickert tried to argue that even if William Sears' positions are much less radical than those of his followers, they are ‘misogynistic’ and give

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One specific caregiving activity in which Sears claims fathers should be supportive rather than primary is feeding. Breastfeeding includes nutritional benefits which are undeniable, but the main reason breastfeeding is promoted in attachment parenting is for the mother-child bonding through skin to

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Sociologist Jan Macvarish (University of Kent), a pioneer in the recent field of parenting culture study, described how AP parents utilize their parenting philosophy as a strategy of individualization, as a way to find personal identity and to join a group of congenial adults. Macvarish even speaks

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don't actually play the major role in non-western cultures that is attributed to them. In Cameroon for example, children are actually carried in a sling initially, but then have to learn to sit and to walk much earlier than European and North American children; rather than to cultivate affectionate

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significantly improve the child's sleep, while co-sleeping and frequent nighttime breastfeeding if anything hinder the formation of wholesome sleeping patterns. Co-sleeping mothers breastfeed three times as frequently during the night as mothers who have their bed for themselves. The most important

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studied five pairs of co-sleeping mothers and infants and found them to synchronize nighttime arousals. With the study, he raised the questions of 1) whether there's a relationship between these synchronized nighttime waking and breathing stability and 2) whether this could be related to some forms

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Sears has taken an adamant stance against fathers being primary caregivers in attachment parenting. On his website, he claims that fathers should "help" by supporting mothers and creating an environment which allows the mother to devote herself to the baby. Sears has claimed infants have a natural

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Sears states that in attachment families, parents and children practice a highly developed and sophisticated type of communication that makes it unnecessary for parents to use practices such as scolding; often, all it takes is a mere frown. He is convinced that children who trust their parents are

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For parents and particularly for mothers, attachment parenting is more strenuous and demanding than most other present-day ways of parenting, placing high responsibility on them without allowing for a support network of helpful friends or family. William Sears is fully aware of the arduousness of

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as the child's pivotal mean of self-expression. Parents are challenged to "read" the crying – which is initially generalized – and to provide the child with empathic feedback in order to help them to differentiate and elaborate the repertoire of their signals gradually. Furthermore, he recommends

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William Sears advocates extended breastfeeding, since he is convinced that breastfeeding supports attachment even of older children and that it is a valid instrument to comfort older children or to bring mother and child together on turbulent days. Neither does he object nighttime breastfeeding of

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and oxytocin (which promote bonding) are very short, Sears recommends to breastfeed very frequently, newborns in particular (8 to 12 times a day). He claims that the hours between 1 am and 6 am are the most beneficial for breastfeeding. In general, Sears argues that breastfeeding is beneficial for

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Sears finds the burden of attachment parenting just and reasonable, and describes the opponents of this philosophy as "authoritarian males ... caught up in their role of advice giver". Granju, too, takes a swipe at "the male dominated 'scientific' childcare guidance". She argues that the low

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The idea of co-sleeping was not new in modern Western societies; as early as in 1976, Tine Thevenin had campaigned for the "family bed". Sears doesn't see a problem when a three-year-old still shares their mother's bed every night. He doesn't even object if a child is in the habit of spending the

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The Sears encourage some of these practices explicitly, for example non-smoking, healthy and home-prepared food, no circumcision, but don't comment on how they are supposed to be linked to the core ideas of attachment parenting. Only in the case of positive discipline, the link is quite obvious.

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mothers for example co-sleep with their infants, but only for the first several months; they never let their infants and toddlers out of view, but they don't wear them while they are working. From very early on, Amish children are raised to serve God, family, and community rather than to express

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merely in a colloquial sense. Although they stressed that parents must distinguish between needs and desires of children, in particular of older children, they denied their readers a guideline of how to tell needs and desires apart. With a view to infants, they believe that needs and desires are

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William Sears uses the terms "lesser quality of attachment", "insecure attachment", and "non-attachment" synonymously. His formulations don't reveal which kind of problematic attachment is meant: reactive attachment disorder (ICD), disorganized attachment (Ainsworth) or the two forms of insecure

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It is undisputed that baby wearing can calm children down. Infants cry the most at the age of six weeks; in 1986, a research team at McGill University showed in a randomized study that infants of that age cried significantly less if their parents wore them a lot on the body during the day. Sears

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who described the phenomenon an example of 21st century "Parental Determinism". As early as in 1996, sociologist Sharon Hays had described the sociocultural phenomenon of an "Intensive Mothering"; with attachment parenting, this phenomenon finally became tangible and recognizable. In 2004, media

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argued that over-parenting, obsession with washable diapers and organic, home made infant food, and parenting practices as the ones recommended by Sears, with breastfeeding into toddlerhood, bring women inevitably back into outdated patterns of gender role. In the United States, Badinter's book

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had disputed that humans still have much instinct at their disposal; for him, plasticity and learning aptitude outranked instinct. In today's research, the term instinct is regarded as obsolete. Recent studies have demonstrated that motherly behavior is not inbred but biologically and socially

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In general, Sears argues that infants should never be left crying because this would harm them. But as early as in 1962, T. Berry Brazelton had shown in a study that a certain amount of crying in young infants does not indicate emotional or physical problems, but is to be considered normal and

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in the mother which supports her emotional bonding with the child, notably in the first ten days after childbirth. In opposition to bottle feeding which tends to be done in three to four hour intervals. Breastfeeding enables the mother to perceive the child's moods and needs exactly. Since the

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For parenting, any fuzziness of the term stress as well as of the term need have far-reaching consequences. If it is assumed that any crying of the child indicates harmful stress and that any of his demands indicate a true need, parents are bound to confuse rapport, sensitivity, responsivity,

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In Germany, there are independent AP institutions in several cities. Hamburg, the movement's central point in Germany, hosted a first Attachment Parenting Congress in 2014, under the patronage of Federal Minister of Family Affairs, Manuela Schwesig. A second one has been announced for 2016.

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and turn a blind eye to those possible alternative factors, they fundamentally run a risk to falsely credit the feeding method for effects of socioeconomic factors. A loophole from this problem was first presented by Cynthia G. Colen (Ohio State University), who successfully factored out

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William Sears' writings show no knowledge of this current state of research. The Searses use the word instinct in a purely colloquial sense and synonymous with terms like hormonal and natural; as an antipole of instinct and nature, they identify the things that "childcare advisors" say.

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Our ideas about attachment parenting are based on thirty-plus years of parenting our own eight children and observing moms and dads whose parenting choices seemed to make sense and whose children we liked. We have witnessed the effects this approach to parenting has on children.

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in 2001. All three books stood – with their opposition against a crude behavioristic infant anthropology – in the tradition of Spock, but radicalized the concept of a contingency-oriented parenting on the one hand, and incorporated Liedloff's idea of an instinct-guided resp.

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Chaffin, M.; Hanson, R; Saunders, BE; Nichols, T; Barnett, D; Zeanah, C; Berliner, L; Egeland, B; Newman, E; Lyon, T; Letourneau, E; Miller-Perrin, C (2006). "Report of the APSAC Task Force on Attachment Therapy, Reactive Attachment Disorder, and Attachment Problems".

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The theoretical starting point of attachment parenting – the idea of contingency – would suggest a concept of the infant as a creature who is essentially defined by their feelings and communication. William Sears, though, defines infants even more essentially by their

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about a parenting philosophy that advocates attachment, extended breastfeeding, and abstinence from punishment, similarly to what William Sears later wrote; however, the point that Solter stressed most was an encouragement of the child's emotional expression to heal

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in the title was written by Tammy Frissell-Deppe, a mother who gave an account of her personal experiences and of those of her friends and acquaintances. In 1999, blogger Katie Allison Granju followed with another book, to which William Sears contributed a

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mothers choose to go back to their jobs quickly simply because they don't understand how disruptive that is to the well-being of their babies. So many babies in our culture are not being cared for in the way God designed, and we as a nation are paying the

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plainly identical. In general, they use both terms synonymously. With a view to toddlers, they often phrase it: a child is not ready yet (to do without breastfeeding, without co-sleeping, etc.); but even in contexts like these, they speak of needs, too.

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and Ainsworth, but to Selma Fraiberg, a psychoanalyst who studied blindly born children in the 1970s. Due to the vague description of problematic attachment, Sears and AP organizations who use his criteria have been reproached to produce a high rate of

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In 2014, a team of researchers at the University of Mary Washington showed in a study that mothers endorsing the belief that parenting is challenging (e.g. "It is harder to be a good mother than to be a corporate executive"), which is associated with

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Katie Allison Granju, who advocates attachment parenting and who published comprehensive guidelines for AP parents, offers a different perspective. She characterizes attachment parenting as not just a parenting style, but "a completely fulfilling

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invigorated the discussion. He contributed new research about the capacity of newborn infants to express themselves and their emotions, sensitized parents for these signals, and encouraged them – just like Spock – to follow their own judgment.

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While breastfeeding for only a few months is the cultural norm for Western Society, what we know about breastfeeding in primitive cultures and weaning times for other mammals that human infants were designed to breastfeed for several years.

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socioeconomical determinants by comparing siblings only; her study demonstrated that formula fed children showed only minimal differences to their breastfed siblings, insofar as their physical, emotional and mental thriving was concerned.

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William Sears, a pediatrician, came upon the term "attachment parenting" in 1982 by reading Liedloff. Initially, he referred to his new philosophy as "the new continuum concept" and "immersion mothering". When he published his book

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of altruistic motherliness. But according to Hays, any kind of "intensive motherhood" that systematically privileges children's needs over mothers' needs happens without fail to the economical and personal disadvantage of mothers.

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skin contact and intimacy; however, the benefits of skin to skin contact and intimacy are still present for fathers. Dr. Sigmund Freud theorized that infants tend to prefer mothers since it is the mother who fulfills the infant's

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In numerous scientific studies, the normal development of attachment has been well documented. The same applies for deviant or pathological developments. Problematic or disturbed attachment has been described in three contexts:

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Even though stress is one of the fundamental terms of attachment parenting, William Sears' publications don't reveal acquaintance with pertinent literature about this topic. Sears links stress and distress with the release of

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contributed to the popularity of the philosophy. Many North American Women are organized in support groups of Attachment Parenting International (API), the movement's umbrella organization, in which Martha Sears serves as a

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whole night with her mother's nipple in her mouth, except when the mother really feels uncomfortable. Sears advises working mothers to co-sleep on all accounts in order to compensate the child for her daytime absence.

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as the ideal arrangement and refers to it as the nighttime equivalent of baby wearing: co-sleeping supports, in his opinion, the mother-child-attachment, makes breastfeeding more convenient, and prevents not only

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Although the term "attachment parenting" was first used only in the late 1990s, the concept is much older. In the United States, it became popular in the mid-1900s, when several responsiveness and love-oriented

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If you were on an island, and you had no mothers-in-law, no psychologists, no doctors around, no experts, this is what you would naturally and instinctively do to give your baby the best investment you'll ever

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mothers a chronically guilty conscience, and that they frequently disagree with relevant research results. The cover picture and article became the starting point of disputes in many media, critizing Pickert.

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gave a detailed account of the development of the child's attachment; at the latest after the sixth month, healthy children begin to disengage from the mother-child symbiosis quite normally. However, it was

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Anisfeld, E.; Casper, V.; Nozyce, M.; Cunningham, N. (1990). "Does infant carrying promote attachment? An experimental study of the effects of increased physical contact on the development of attachment".

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McKenna, James J. (1990). "Sleep and arousal patterns of co-sleeping human mother/infant pairs: A preliminary physiological study with implications for the study of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS)".

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in 2007 which fueled the vaccine skepticism among parents, and in some AP groups, parents are explicitly asked not to have their children vaccinated. Vaccine skepticism is not universal among AP groups,

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I realized we needed to change the term to something more positive, so we came up with AP, since the Attachment Theory literature was so well researched and documented, by John Bowlby and others.

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of the mother, like the prioritization and delegation of duties and responsibilities, streamlining of daily routines, and collaboration between both parents. Sears advises mothers to turn to a

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Sears argues that advocates of sleep training are professionally incompetent and merely business oriented, and that there is no scientific proof that sleep training is beneficial for children.

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Ball, H. Ball, Helen L. (2006). "Parent-Infant Bed-sharing Behavior: effects of feeding type, and presence of father". Human Nature: an interdisciplinary biosocial perspective, 17(3): 301-316.

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van Ijzendoorn, Marinus; Schuengel, Carlo; Bakermans-Kranenburg, Marian J. (June 1999). "Disorganized attachment in early childhood: Meta-analysis of precursors, concomitants, and sequelae".

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In Austria and Switzerland there exist a small number of AP institutions, too. In Sweden, fantasy and science fiction writer Jorun Modén solicits attachment parenting, which she refers to as

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preferences that are based on a particular set of attitudes (notably: a striving for naturalness), which, however, are mostly not directly tied to the declared goal of attachment parenting:

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yet, but as basic elements of a new parenting philosophy, they were distinctly clear even at that early point. In 1985, William Sears and his wife Martha Sears began to link the concept –

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Their belief in such scientific proof doesn't hinder the Searses to advise AP parents not to engage in discussions with AP critics. They also favor some science while they refuse other:

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entered the pedagogical mainstream, as a contrast to the more disciplinarian philosophies prevalent at the time. Attachment parenting owes many of its ideas to older teachings, such as

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McKenna, James (1994). "Experimental studies of infant-parent co-sleeping: mutual physiological and behavioral influences and their relevance to SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome)".

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Critics consider a lack of a consistent theoretical foundation – notably the lack of precise definitions of the fundamental terms – a shortcoming of the attachment parenting concept.

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emotional availability, and wise protection with behaviors that, from an educational standpoint, are highly dysfunctional and that William Sears mostly wouldn't agree with himself:

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who gave the most accurate description of the attachment development during the first three years. William Sears' publications reveal no knowledge of this relevant literature.

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William Sears states that any sleeping arrangement that a family practices is acceptable as long as it works; but he advises mother to sleep close to the child. He thinks of

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test only. In "normal" middle-class families, about 15% of all children show a disorganized attachment. In social problem groups, the percentage can be significantly higher.

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As studies have shown, it is indeed possible to use discipline strategies that are sensitive and, therefore, one should not equate discipline and insensitive caregiving.

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yet, so that today's way of child care – with bottle feeding, use of cribs and baby carriages, etc. – does not meet their needs. Later, authors such as Sharon Heller and

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For Williams Sears, attachment parenting is a kind of parenting that is radically characterized by maternal responsivity. For that, he adopted Mary Ainsworth's term of "

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William Sears postulates the existence of a brief time slot immediately after birth during which the newborn is in a "quiet alert state" and particularly accessible for

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guidelines on breastfeeding, which recommend exclusive breastfeeding in the first six months and complementary breastfeeding in the first two years for all countries.

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It is, therefore, not practices like co-sleeping, babywearing or feeding on cue that Ainsworth identifies as the crucial determinant for a secure attachment, but the

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Hays, Sharon (1998). "The Fallacious Assumptions and Unrealistic Prescriptions of Attachment Theory: A Comment on 'Parents' Socioemotional Investment in Children'".

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Any form of intensive, obsessive mothering has, as Katha Pollitt stated, devastating consequences for the equality of treatment of women in the society. In France,

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In Europe, Attachment Parenting Europe (APEU, in Lelystad, Netherlands) campaigns for attachment parenting; in the Dutch language the philosophy is referred to as

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Wittmer, Joe (2003). "Counseling the Old Order Amish: Culturally Different by Religion". In Vacc, Nicolas A.; DeVaney, Susan B.; Brendel, Johnston M. (eds.).

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education reforms, the French traditionally have a deeply rooted belief that educated child care specialists educate children at least as well as mothers do.

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Moreover, Katie Allison Granju argued that co-sleeping is beneficial for children, too, because it gives children a vivid notion of the concept of bedtime.

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Kazuko, B.; Behrens, Y.; Parker, Andrea C.; Kulkofsky, Sarah (2014). "Stability of Maternal Sensitivity Across Time and Contexts with Q-Sort Measures".

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from 1967; however, Klaus and Kennell later modified their original assumptions, including the one cited by Sears. Sears advises women to abstain from

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Kemp, James S.; Unger, Benjamin; Wilkins, Davida; Psara, Rose M.; Ledbetter, Terrance L.; Graham, Michael A.; Case, Mary; Thach, Bradley T. (2000).

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Jeong, Joshua; Franchett, Emily E.; Ramos de Oliveira, Clariana V.; Rehmani, Karima; Yousafzai, Aisha K. (May 10, 2021). Persson, Lars Åke (ed.).

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Opponents of attachment parenting have questioned that the behavior of a 3½ year old who still demands to nurse can actually be classified as a

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The Kind Mama: A Simple Guilde to Supercharged Fertility, a Radiant Pregnancy, a Sweeter Birth, and a Healthier, More Beautiful Beginning

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option, since it constitutes an alternative to the – male dominated – superiority of physicians who traditionally shaped the spheres of

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Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves: Transforming parent-child relationships from reaction and struggle to freedom, power and joy

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Like Benjamin Spock before them, William and Martha Sears consider their parenting philosophy as a common sense and instinct-guided

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Chaffin, M. (2006). "Report of the APSAC Task Force on Attachment Therapy, Reactive Attachment Disorder, and Attachment Problems".

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shaped detailed models of the human needs; ever since, scientists have made a clear distinction between needs on the one hand and

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Other common mother-child AP practices, such as bonding after birth and co-sleeping, may also be equally beneficial for fathers.

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Since 2012, there has been a controversy about Sears' positions which has been mostly carried out in the English-speaking world.

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Freeman, H.; Brown, B.B. (2001). "Primary attachment to parents and peers during adolescence: Differences by attachment style".

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Ainsworth, M.D.S. (1967). Infancy in Uganda: Infant care and the growth of attachment.Baltimore: Johns Hopkins University Press.

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factor for a child to get a good sleep proved to be the mother's emotional accessibility, not her permanent physical closeness.

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Van Zeijl, J.; Mesman, J.; Van Ijzendoorn, M.H.; Bakermans-Kranenburg, M. J.; Juffer, F.; Stolk, M. N.; Alink, L. R. (2006).

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Creative parenting : how to use the new continuum concept to raise children successfully from birth through adolescence

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attachment (Ainsworth). Still in 1982, he mentioned "diseases of non-attachment" not referring to the attachment theorists

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Despite the lack of a consistent theory, William and Martha Sears consider attachment parenting scientifically proven:

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Albert Wunsch, Sears therefore ranks among those parenting advisors whose philosophies reflect stray aspects of their

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on the other hand. In 2000, T. Berry Brazelton, a pioneer in the field of newborn psychology, and child psychiatrist

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Schechter D.S and E. Willheim (2009). "Disturbances of attachment and parental psychopathology in early childhood".

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Attachment parenting is particularly popular among educated urban women in Western countries, who are interested in

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CPSC Warns Against Placing Babies in Adult Beds; Study finds 64 deaths each year from suffocation and strangulation

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children, who spend more time in an infant seat. For middle-class families, an equivalent study doesn't exist yet.

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Hunziker, U.A.; Barr, R.G. (May 1986). "Increased carrying reduces infant crying: a randomized controlled trial".

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eye contact, mothers blow into their children's face in order to get them out of the habit of making eye contact.

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Complete Book of Christian Parenting and Child Care: A Medical and Moral Guide to Raising Happy Healthy Children

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Stress has been surveyed and documented in many studies. The theoretical foundation was created in the 1960s by

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There is no conclusive body of research that shows Sears' approach to be superior to "mainstream parenting". In

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The establishment of a secure mother-child attachment is the declared and pivotal goal of attachment parenting.

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Vicedo, Marga (2009). "Mothers, machines, and morals: Harry Harlow's work on primate love from lab to legend".

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Sears advises mothers to wear infants on the body as many hours during the day as possible, for example in a

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during childbirth, since those drug the child, too, and according to Sears interfere with the birth bonding.

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Secure, insecure-avoidant, and insecure-ambivalent attachment in toddlers in the U.S., in Germany, and Japan

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demonstrated that baby monkeys would choose comfort and affection over food. As early as in the late 1940s,

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the health of both child and mother. He claims that infants up to six months should be exclusively fed with

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Until 1999, Sears named only five Baby Bs. The last two were only added in 2001 with the publication of the

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Shaffer, D. (2008). Social and personality development. (6th ed.). Belmont, CA: Wadsworth Cengage Learning.

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Baby books (including my own) and child care experts extol the virtues of motherhood as the supreme career.

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Attached at the Heart. Eight Proven Parenting Principles for Raising Connected and Compassionate Children

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observed, the rise of attachment parenting followed a surge of glamourized motherhood of popular stars (

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Carlson, Vikko (July 1989). "Disorganized/disoriented attachment relationships in maltreated infants".

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in 1982, the concept was largely elaborate already. The "7 Baby-Bs" were not explicitly presented as a

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and with plenty of physical contact – a guideline that radically broke with the preceding doctrines of

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Beyond the Sling. A Real-Life Guide to Raising Confident, Loving Children the Attachment Parenting Way

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The Discipline Book: Everything You Need to Know to Have a Better-Behaved Child From Birth to Age Ten

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reputation that breastfeeding, namely extended breastfeeding in the Western world has, arises from a

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Trinke, S.J.; Bartholomew, K. (1997). "Hierarchies of attachment relationships in young adulthood".

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one year later, they responded neither to Maslow nor to Brazelton and Greenspan, but used the word

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Since attachment parenting poses a considerable challenge to the reconcilability of motherhood and

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The vital touch : how intimate contact with your baby leads to happier, healthier development

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Tuteur, Amy (April 2020). "Trauma and attachment: Does attachment parenting promote attachment?".

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The Attachment Parenting Book : A Commonsense Guide to Understanding and Nurturing Your Baby

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policy on SIDS prevention opposes bed-sharing with infants, although room-sharing is encouraged.

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is another basic term of attachment parenting. The Searses describe attachment parenting as the

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In extreme and rare conditions, the child may not form an attachment at all and may suffer from

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which can be classified as highly "traditional", none of them practicing attachment parenting.

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toddlers. As early as in 1992, Norma Jane Bumgarner had campaigned for extended breastfeeding.

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The Benefits of Attachment Parenting for Infants and Children: A Behavioral Developmental View

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In the United States, parenting tips of well-known people like the actresses Mayim Bialik and

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The ultimate target of child rearing is, according to Sears, happiness. Similar to the German

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The baby book : everything you need to know about your baby : from birth to age two

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On his website, Sears even suggests that with attachment parenting, there would have been no

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The baby book : everything you need to know about your baby : from birth to age two

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