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Emily Temple, Viscountess Palmerston

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testing the diplomatic waters before committing himself publicly to an opinion. She could not cure his notorious lack of punctuality since this was a fault she shared to the full; Queen Victoria, while staying with them at Broadlands, complained that Emily had kept her waiting for an hour for a carriage ride. It was a standing joke in London society that they were always so late for dinner that neither of them had ever heard of soup. Psychologically the two were very well-matched. Biographer Herbert Bell states:
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personal security he needed to get to the very top of British politics. Lady Palmerston made her husband happy, as he did her, and she was a political power in her own right. In the last and most successful decades of Palmerston’s life, she was his best advisor and most trusted amanuensis. Theirs was one of the great marriages of the century.
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If Palmerston brought the greater sum of knowledge and pure intellect to the partnership, his lady was richly dowered in other qualities: sound sense and delicate sensibilities, warmed by beauty and good-heartedness into charm; shrewdness, so linked with impulsiveness that one wonders still how far
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Emily was noted not only for beauty but for her extraordinary charm: she was described as "grace put in action, whose softness was as seductive as her joyousness". She was undoubtedly the most popular patroness of Almack's, her warmth and charm being a notable contrast to the rudeness and arrogance
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Aged eighteen, Emily married Peter Clavering-Cowper, 5th Earl Cowper (1778–1837), who was nine years her senior. Lord Cowper had a reputation for dullness and slowness of speech which were in marked contrast to his wife's social gifts; a more favourable opinion was that he was a quiet, pleasant man
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She was noted for kindness and generosity, and would do anything for a person she liked. She would even help people she disliked: although she detested her sister-in-law Caroline, when Caroline was barred from Almack's, a sign of the deepest social disgrace, Emily eventually managed to get the ban
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said, "His attentions to Lady Palmerston, when they both of them were well stricken in years, were those of a perpetual courtship. The sentiment was reciprocal; and I have frequently seen them go out on a morning to plant some trees, almost believing that they would live to eat the fruit, or sit
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In 1837, Lord Cowper died, two days into the reign of Queen Victoria. This left the way open for a marriage between Emily and Palmerston, though their age was a cause for concern, as, in the eyes of her family, was Palmerston's reputation as a womaniser. The matter was referred to Queen Victoria,
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During the marriage, Lady Palmerston continued an active social role as a salon hostess. As the events were eagerly attended by foreign diplomats, Lord Palmerston would encourage his wife to float his ideas before the assembled guests and report back on their reception as a means of unofficially
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was an inspired political alliance as well as a stab at personal happiness. Harry and Emily were supremely well-matched. As the husband of a beautiful, charming, intelligent, rich woman whose friends were the best people in society, Palmerston at last had the money, the social setting, and the
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She had five children, three sons and two daughters, all born during her marriage to Lord Cowper, although one of the daughters, Emily, was believed to have been fathered by Palmerston, and her son William may have been fathered by Pozzo di Borgo.
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who was far less stupid than he appeared to be, but preferred to avoid society and politics. Emily threw herself into the Regency social scene, becoming one of the patronesses of the highly exclusive
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candidate. Emily's mother on her deathbed in 1818 urged her to remain constant to Palmerston, possibly looking forward to a future time when they would be free to marry.
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There was a lifelong bond between William and Emily, whom he fondly called "that little devil Emily"; by contrast she detested his wife,
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whose approval cleared the way for the marriage on 16 December 1839. Palmerston was 55 at the time, and Lady Cowper was 52.
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The Honorable Charles Spencer Cowper (7 June 1816 – 30 March 1879), he married Lady Harriett Gardiner (daughter of
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lifted. Like many of the society ladies of the age, she had love affairs, including one with the Corsican diplomat
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her ‘indiscretions’ were planned for effect; earnestness and enthusiasm that admit of no such doubt.
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In 1865, Lord Palmerston died, and Lady Palmerston followed him four years later, in 1869.
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and the union was, by all accounts, a decidedly happy one. Of it,
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At Almack's, Lady Cowper was increasingly seen in the company of
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twice held the premiership of England, while another brother,
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in 1843 and sold it to Queen Victoria's eldest son and heir,
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of some of the other ladies who ran the club, especially
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Coat of arms of Emily Temple as Viscountess Palmerston
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We Two: Victoria and Albert: Rulers, Partners, Rivals
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Index

The Right Honourable

Thomas Lawrence
Spouse of the prime minister of the United Kingdom
Henry John Temple
George Cowper, 6th Earl Cowper
Lady Emily Cowper
William Cowper-Temple, 1st Baron Mount Temple
Frances Jocelyn, Viscountess Jocelyn
Peniston Lamb, 1st Viscount Melbourne
Elizabeth Milbanke
Almack's
Lord Melbourne
Earl Cowper
Lord Palmerston
Peniston Lamb
Elizabeth (née Milbanke)
William Lamb
Frederick Lamb
George Lamb
Queen Victoria
Lady Caroline Lamb

William Owen
Almack's club
Carlo Andrea Pozzo di Borgo
Lady Jersey
Princess Lieven

Henry John Temple, 3rd Viscount Palmerston

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